She might be able to torture herself long enough to lose the 30 pounds, but she would not have learned how to eat differently. Her eating habits made her gain the 30 pounds to begin with. If she races to get those 30 pounds off as quickly as possible, she will not have discovered what eating habit she has that she needs to change in order to keep those 30 pounds from coming back. She will not be able to continue the deprivation to maintain her weight loss.
She wants a quick fix and she wants it today. It took her years to gain the 30 pounds, yet she wants them gone overnight. If she can lose them overnight, they will come back overnight. If you want to stay thin, you must relearn how to eat. You have to teach yourself how to deal with food everyday, under all emotional, social and physical conditions. You have to lose weight eating real food because you cannot afford to buy diet food the rest of your life. The decisive test of a diet, that can last a lifetime, is to ask yourself if I lose the weight I want, will I love eating this way for the rest of my life? Do not ask yourself if you are willing to eat that way for the rest of your life because after you have lost weight you believe you are willing and able to do anything. Instead, be certain to ask yourself if you will love to eat this way for the rest of your life. If the answer is no, then you will go back to eating the way you love and you will gain your weight back.
You can eat real food with real flavor the rest of your life. You need to eat and enjoy moderate amounts of the “bad” foods so you will not feel deprived. If you are over weight, chances are you do not know how to buy and cook real foods and you probably do not know what a moderate amount is. You have to learn that first. Once you learn, it will become second nature, you will lose weight and it will never find its way home again.
Cooking is easier than you think and you are worth the time and effort it takes.
Simple cooking idea: A sharpening steel does not actually sharpen a knife, instead it realigns the edge of the blade. As you cut, the tiny teeth on the edge of the knife bend over; a steel puts the teeth back into a row again.