I had an interesting conversation with a woman the other day. She is in her mid thirties, educated, articulate and smart. She is a CPA and has her own business. I was sharing that I am writing a cookbook and that opener always leads to many questions from both sides. People love to talk about food and either their lack of cooking skills or their proficiency in the kitchen.
She told me that she cooked a few times for her husband when they were dating to “hook him in”, but she has not cooked at all in the eight years they have been married. That statement did not bother me, but her next statement did. She said he cooks for himself and that she did not care what he ate. I was dumbstruck. Admittedly, I am a bit obsessive about cooking and eating well, but to not care what someone you love eats was incomprehensible to me. The only way I was able to rationalize her attitude was to convince myself that she did not see cooking as an opportunity to show nurturing, love, care and concern for her husband. I am sure he is doing fine cooking for himself and, obviously, he is quite capable, but she is missing a chance to influence his health and well-being.
Let’s Cook Tonight® and
Cooking is easier than you think and you are worth the time and effort it takes.
Simple cooking idea: Never put anything in the microwave without a cover. If you do this, you will never have to clean the inside of your microwave.
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